Guys i thought about it and am so sorry about this post, because it feels like am snitching but it also feels good because a lot of ladies would gain from this.
A man may not really be attracted to woman, having no true love for her, and may conquer her with soothing words to have his way with her. That’s why it is very critical to be sure of the intent of a suitor.
Therefore, in dating and courtship, if a woman does not how to get the right date with carefulness, she may be sexually used and later abandoned. I would like you to note the following dating and courtship tips.
1. Wrong notion that every female is doing it and so it is no big deal. It is not true; there are multitudes of girls and ladies that are still virgins. Don’t make yourself cheap for the guy.
2. The idea that the man should be satisfied sexually since the two of you will soon get married. In other words, sex becomes a tool to keep him interested in you. Sex is only born out of true marital love; love is not born out of sex.
3. The man’s claims that if you really love him, you would let him have his way. He is wrong. Don’t succumb to his pressure. True love waits till the wedding night. Tell him to wait till the relationship is sealed by mutual agreement. He is a date!
4. False hope that he will marry you is not proper. Don’t make yourself cheep like that. What if he loses his mind and jilts you? Don’t flirt with him.
5. It is a flimsy, selfish excuse that you would like to know if he is sexually potent. That’s a bad trial. Don’t tempt him. He is well able to satisfy you. Time will tell.
6. The feeling that the two of you have to find out your sexual compatibility is just deceit or self-deception. Average married couples are not sexually compatible; they only work things out after marriage on how they can enjoy sex in a mutual way.
7. Some ladies claim that they need some measure of experience before marriage. It is not honourable. Don’t to it.
8. It is highly ridiculous to engage in pre-marital sex because you want to know if he is fertile enough to impregnate you. After seeing the symptoms of pregnancy, you then abort it having convinced yourself that the man is okay. That’s confusion.
9. The man often complains of being uncomfortable because of sexual urge which is a normal physiological reaction, and then with pity on him, you feel like giving in to sex. That’s not true sympathy; it is senseless. He must learn self control. Don’t make yourself an instrument of sex that a man can use to ease his sexual urge. It is more honourable if you do that when you are both married.
10. Sometimes, the intent of ladies is to only be romantic with their men without engaging in sex. Romance is the only sure gateway to sexual love. The romantic acts will allow the man to caress you to bed one day. When you do it once, you won’t want to stop it. That’s how powerful the sexuality of a woman is.
May I tell you that if you are a disciplined woman as far as dating and courtship are concerned, no matter how much pressure the man puts on you, you will be respected and honoured for it. He will eventually like you for it. You have proved that you are trustworthy and can maintain fidelity in marriage.
On the contrary, if the man walks away from the relationship, he is not really in love with you in the first place. He is only attracted to your beautiful body and not your personality. Keep the 10 dating and courtship tips in view in your relationships.
if only our girls will stick these into their head!!!
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